a DJ on radio said guys nowadays aren't romantic...please do give me some comments on this ya, no matter guys or girls...
As for me, well..i just think that i seldom see people get creative in creating a romantic...Romantic for most are those things people do in the movies, many sees romantic as candle light dinners and watching sun rise...
It's not that i don't agree that that is romantic...it's just that..i feel that romantic shouldn't be like that, it's suppose to be the time when two people are having a wonderful time together, not the background...well some background might help..
Picture this, if a couple could dance to a soft and nice music, even if they are in a mall, it's still romantic...feelings are important, others are just how you prefer to perceive...well... unless you want the moment to be unforgettable, then that is another story..other than that, repeated things can be very romantic, for example, pouring a cup of water for the other every morning when waking up, or giving a kiss everyday before and after going out every day, giving a thoughtful give is also romantic...for me, small things that is being done in life would be romantic as long as there is effort to keep things going..
As for unforgettable moments, guys...be more creative, be more daring...when day dreaming, don't just dream bout sexy girls u saw on television, think of something new, think of some thing She would like...
as for the ladies/Girls/woman..come on, it's time for u all to learn to make some romantic time for a change, get out of the old old old old thinking that only guys do the planning..You want romantic dinner? you want romantic time? Plan for one!!! come on.. it's not jsut a guys job to keep the spice in the relation...
Some ideas of unforgettable times...
- make as much of paper crane (纸鹤) as you can, then hang it on a tree with small leafs...bring her to see after in the morning..as early as u can...best in sunrise...well, this is not that easy to do...but if you're trying to impress the girl of your dreams and you're so madly in love with her...i think it's not a bad one...
- a teddy bear with scarf, hide a necklace in the scarf...let her discover it...just let it be...don't tell her anything...and i really mean it..nothing!
- flowers?? an idea i got from some where is to sent her all real and one fake.. write a note telling her that you would love her till the last rose fades...
- here's something you can do more often...
bring her to a shore, at night... on some musics (no lyrics), dance with her...don't know how to dance?? don worry, wrap ur arm around her, take of ur shoes and let her step on ur feed...gently sway around..you don't have to carry her with ur feet(no one can do that even if they are very strong, even if they can,that is working out, not dancing), letting her on your feed will help you both to get the same timing...dancing itself is romantic, if the girl really knows romance, she will know how to sway with u..if she is petrified, better..cos you can hold her more gently and let her calm and know that it is save with u...that's what makes them feel secure having u around...
well, these are some to share, please do put in comment about ur idea if u have any...to show that people nowadays still knows about being romantic...
o ya...if you're thinking of writing candle light dinner...pls don't!! it's a lame and boring idea....
